Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Why Do I Put The Cart Before The Horse?

I can See It! I Can Really Feel It!
 But  Can Someone Tell Me How To Get There??



How Do We Balance. The Roles of Daily life and GO For OUR DREAMS!

Alarm goes off and it begins. Make coffee, start breakfast, feed husband and kids.  Munch on a bit of eggs in between.  See husband off to work, kids off to school,call to make appointments.  Before you know it, it's time to get ready for work.
I Got It, I Got It!  I will work on my business plan on my lunch break.  SO MUCH for trying to keep my enthusiasm!  Today I was so busy that I didn't get a lunch break, before I knew it was the last hour of my work shift. 

Home again...dinnertime.  Cook dinner, feed husband and kids, bath kids, help with homework, talk with husband about his day, check over homework, get stuff ready for the next day.  Oh let me not forget I have To Clean The House!  Finally things slow down, some time to myself.  A good time to work on my business plan or other related entrepreneur stuff, but now I'm not in the mood.  My momentum is down. Still I have this nagging cloud over my head "saying I have to get this done!"
OF COURSE we love her husband, kids, family and home, and we are not complaining,and comes that guilty question probing in our sub-consciousness..."What about my dreams and goals?"
THEN wake up tomorrow and do it all over again.

There is hope...I hear a still, small voice say.

Suggested reading Philippians 4:6


My Version of Help
I'm definitely no expert but I would like to share some tips that helps me when I get overwhelmed, and helps me put things in perspective. 
Goes back to this blog title "why do I put the cart before the horse?"  The horse suppose to lead the passengers, the cart and all in it.  My To Do shouldn't be before my source who strengthens, leads, and help me get all done with ease.  
I know if I put You First, then all else will fall into place in due time.

1.) I myself am a singer-songwriter and owner of Life of Lyrics Music in Orlando, FL, listens and writes music as a tool of comfort and release. Music has served as a saving grace that lead me to become a believer of Jesus Christ.  
 But whatever positive element that gives you a dose of inspiration, i recommend to do it to help you encourage yourself.
2.) Make a list,(and be realistic). I constantly remind myself of this because of my gift and talent I unaware bombard myself with too many things to do, which could lead to anxiety and hopelessness.  So make a list of things towards the goals you want to do and implement them a step at a time.
3.) Talk about it.  Talk with husband, wife, children or whomever closest to you. It helps relieve anxiety and they may offer to help or just be a source of moral support.
4.) DON'T GIVE UP!  This is the real world and we know it's no walk in the park, but don't quit so easy (this advice is also to myself.)
I believe dreams are timeless, goes beyond age, beyond limitations of this world.  It might not happen overnight,  (didn't happen in my twenties), but with the help of God and will it can be made happened.

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